Many of us masturbate. When I first bought my beloved Doxy mains-powered wand vibrator which rumbles with more strength than the belly of a dragon on hunger strike — I used it so much that I bruised my cooze. While travelling with friends in South East Asia, I pretended to have food poisoning just so I could spend an uninterrupted half-hour self-pleasuring in the hotel bathroom. You might stroke and caress each other as well, but the main aim of the game is to get yourself off, yourself. There is no one better qualified than you to show your lover how you like to be touched. A mutual masturbation sesh is the perfect tutorial for you both.
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Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. Carolyn Yates. So why can it feel so intimidating? For one thing, it can carry all of the taboo, or aura of privacy, secrecy, and shame, that can go along with masturbation. For another, it can feel really vulnerable.
Your Step-by-Step Guide to Trying Mutual Masturbation
You masturbate. He masturbates. Both are sexy separately Despite your instincts to keep your solo time, well, solo, getting off as a pair can be a huge turn-on, says sex therapist Danielle Harel , Ph.
Mutual masturbation is woefully underrated. It's safer sex, it's super unlikely you'll get pregnant, and since you know what you're doing, you often get a better orgasm by your own hand. So get to it, sister.